Complete Idiots guide to amazing sex by Sari Locker

Author:Sari Locker [Locker, Sari]
Language: eng
Format: azw3, epub
Published: 2012-07-27T16:00:00+00:00

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Chapter 18 Sexy Sights and Sounds

Imagine yourself in the arms of your lover. You both feel mad, passionate lust for each other, and you're totally lost in the excitement of this moment. Your lover's nude body feels so amazing. You're touching each other all over. You start kissing when all of a sudden, in no uncertain terms, your lover describes to you in the most raw, sexually explicit words exactly what types of sex you two could be having. What do you do? Rewind or fast-forward? Would this be a turn on—something that would make you rip off your clothes and say “Take me, I'm yours!”? Or would you be totally turned off and grossed out?

What if your lover popped an X-rated video in the VCR, and suggested that you watch it together? What if he or she sent you a steamy e-mail, filled with erotic dialogue? How would you feel if you found a nudie magazine stashed under your partner's bed? How would you feel if you found charges to a phone sex line on the phone bill?

It's natural to become aroused by looking at sexy pictures, or reading sexy writing, or talking sexy to someone in person, over the phone, or online. In fact, for some people, these methods of sexual expression can be fun, and very satisfying.

Many people love using sexy talk or erotic images to enhance masturbation, to get aroused before sex, or to spice up their sex life with a partner. But other people don't like porn at all, and even find it offensive. If you don't like explicit talk and sexy pictures, then you should avoid them; you don't have to force yourself to try to like anything. But if dirty talk and pornography make you hot and horny, by all means, go for it.

Aural Sex Sexy talk during sex, or “dirty talk” as it is commonly called, runs the gamut, from something like “Oh, your body is so beautiful,” to the more down and dirty, as in, “You like it when I give it to you hard, don't you, you horny slut?!”

But make no mistake: There's really nothing “dirty” about dirty talk. It's just a way of using language and your imagination to express your sexual desires, or to feel more turned on. We could even call it “sexy talk” instead! If your idea of sexy talk is whispering sweet nothings, then you don't have to use four-letter words or expletives to be sexy.

Obviously, there's more than one way to say “vagina” or “penis.” You may want to ask your partner which words he or she likes to use for casual day-to-day use, which words he or she finds erotic, and which words are a total turn off. For example, maybe your partner generally likes to call his penis a “penis,” and finds the slang “cock” to be a sexy turn on when you say it to him, but thinks that the word “dick” is a big turn off.

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